Insecurity is the root of all evil

Reached a conclusion similar to E. Tolle that people may loose other dear people in life because of insecurity. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Any insecurity is dangerous. It turns out that we are all insecure if we don't secure ourselves properly. No exceptions. Don't secure yourself from outside but always from the inside. That is what religious people have been doing for ages. We have no control over so many aspects of our lives - that it is beyond belief.

thinking of soul mates

Sometimes it is really hard to get to know a person, who they truly really are. We don't ask obvious questions - we may think our friends think in similar way, especially when we feel comfortable around them. Wrong! Often, answers and their understanding of the world doesn't match ours in core issues. Biggest disasters are when we assume our soul mate will think like us. We are lucky if we share 80% of world perception with him/her.